Fruit of Grace

“Wow, faces and spaces that resemble mine!” I thought. I was equally excited and anxious, because while I welcomed the cultural representation, I could no longer shake off the approach as “white people stuff.”

Intangible Gift

What brought me here, I mean right here typing this for you to read, is that while I sat back with a beaming heart, I was in fact sitting back, leaving my story unwritten, my thoughts untold, my legacy to fade away.

I Don't Need a Dad

I lived in this delusion for the majority of my life leading into young adulthood. Relationships were disposable (mostly to my advantage but more on that later). I found vulnerability as a sign of weakness and my independence as a weapon and a shield protecting me from disappointment that was bound to happen when I relied on anyone other than myself.

Preparing to Die

How can you and I survive individually while prioritizing the Us? Wouldn't we be forever at odds between choosing what’s best for “me” over what’s best for “us,” hoping things would just work out so we’d never have to choose?